I recently took one of those goofy Facebook surveys to see what
accent I had. See when I lived in the north, lots of folks asked where
in the south I was from. And when I live in the south, people ask where
in the north I'm from. I have lived a third of my life each in the
north, south and midwest. Prior to moving to the midwest in my teens, it
was quite easy to determine from my accent that I was born and raised
in Pittsburgh, PA, one of the finest cities in the country. We speak
fast, forthrightly and from the heart. Questions like "Did you eat yet?"
come out "Jeet jet?" to which one responds, "No, jew?" While the
darlin' "y'all" is popular here in the sweet south, "yinz" in Pittsburgh
refers to the group we called "you guys" in Chicago. While we worshiped
Gawd in Pittsburgh, in the midwest it was Gahd. It's been so much fun
learning the different cultures, accents and terms used in each
location. Bubbler vs. drinking fountain; jagger bush vs. thorn bush;
gumband vs. rubber band; hoagie vs. sub; crayfish vs. crawdad, coke vs.
soda vs. pop and so on. So much so that my accent is mishmashed enough
to confuse anyone who hears me.
Recently I had someone
tell me I was too "northern" for them. And they weren't talking about my
accent. I rolled my eyes. Too northern for someone? What does that even
mean? By the tone of voice, it was not intended to be a compliment. In
the five years I've lived in Alabama, I have been called a Yankee twice,
both times in jest. My northern friends, it is never a kind
reference, ever. I heard it more often in Georgia, with folks telling me
they'd rather we Yankees just move back up north. But here in central
Alabama, we're located near an Air Force base with people moving in and
out all the time. Folks around these parts are used to loving people
from all over the country, so the Yankee moniker is rare. For someone to
actually tell me I was too northern for them was so pathetic to me.
After rolling my eyes at this person, I asked what he was referring to? He didn't answer.
People
from the north and south could stand to learn a few things from each
other. Northerners are direct, quick, honest, hardworking, generous,
strong folk. Southerners are kind, hospitable, tough,
sweet-like-the-tea-they-drink and faithful. Now these are pretty general
adjectives and certainly do not describe every northerner or every
southerner. But there is one distinct difference: typically a northerner
will tell me to my face what they think of me. A southerner will be
sweet to my face and talk about me as I walk away. If I had to choose
between the two, I would take direct honesty every time. Since I grew up
in an area where people are blunt with each another, I take at face
value that what people say to me is the truth. Sadly, I have learned the
hard way to take some things said here with a grain of salt. On the
flip side, because northerners are so direct, it doesn't always come
across kind, and sometimes even rude or hurtful. Southerners ooze
kindness - yes, fake kindness in some instances, but kind nonetheless.
So here's a compromise ... and a Biblical one at that: How about the
truth in love?
Eph. 4:15 says: "Speaking
the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature
body of him who is the head, that is, Christ." 1 John 3:18 says: "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth." 3 John 4 says: "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth."
I
have a problem with fakeness, lies, deceitfulness and exaggeration. All
are forms of fraudulence, and Jesus had a problem with that. It is one
of the Ten Commandments, for crying out loud. Standing before Pilate
before his crucifixion, Jesus said, "In
fact, the reason I was born and came into the world is to testify to
the truth. Everyone on the side of truth listens to me." To which Pilate
promptly responded "What is truth?"
If
you have to ask, you have a problem. The truth hurts sometimes, yes,
but at least it's the truth. And as long as it's done in love, there's a
divine combination there.
If I am too northern for you, ask yourself what exactly you're saying, or even more scary, what you're preferring. I
will never sugarcoat things or say something to you I don't believe
from my heart. If I have complimented you, I want nothing from you, just
to tell you how amazing you are. If I have given you information that
can possibly make a situation better, don't automatically assume I am
trying to discredit the way you've always done it. If my directness is
intended to hurt you, you will not have to guess. But then, would that
be truth "in love?"
Psalm 15 tells us a person whose
walk is blameless is one who speaks the truth from their heart. Jesus
says the truth sets us free (John 8:32). It's a theme repeated over and
over again in Scripture. If I am going to err as a human - and trust me I
will repeatedly - it will be on the side of truth.
I
love this country, every single goofy region of it. And you will see
bits of each of those places have become a part of me. I praise Jesus
for that.
By the way, in case you wondered what accent
this oh-so-accurate-and-thorough survey said I had ... ask me. I'll be
honest with you.
Johann Sebastian Bach, the composer, would put the initials SDG for the Latin "Soli Deo Gloria" on every cantata he wrote. It was a reminder to the musician and listener that everything he did was for the Glory of God Alone. This is for Him. ~ Jill Zimanek
Monday, July 28, 2014
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Sunday, July 6, 2014
The Unqualified Worship Leader's Guide To Worship Leading
Last Sunday I ended a nearly four-year stint as worship leader at
Trinity United Methodist Church in Prattville, AL. It's a job I never
should have had in the first place, but for some reason God placed me
there. I say never should have had because I have stage fright something
awful and my musical background - while including much singing - has
little musical instrument training. (Yes, I had 7 years of piano
lessons, but about all I can play on the keys is Chopsticks.) On paper,
it just didn't make sense for me to be worship leader. But by God's
grace, the sweet encouragement of a friend and the whole hog support of a
pastor, I took it on hesitantly.
I was blessed beyond measure in this position because I was surrounded by the most talented musicians in town. Seriously. One played with the Bee Gees and KC & The Sunshine Band, could play anything by heart on keys - and I mean anything - and had superior producing skills. Two were in a band called the Sweet Young'uns for nearly 50 years and could play the sweetest licks around. Another was a songwriter and talented on several instruments. We had two amazing drummers, gobs of talented singers with unique voices and a bass player from Hawaii that made a coconut bra look pretty frightening. Later with the addition of yet another amazing drummer who had the best song ideas ever and more guitarists that added character to our songs, this praise band was truly hard to beat. Between all these folks, Sunday after Sunday, the Holy Spirit brought our congregation to the most beautiful place of worship. And I learned so much.
And I think what I learned is something all worship leaders (or those wanting to be) can learn from. So here it goes ...
1) Stop noodling and vibrato when you are singing worship songs. The congregation has trouble singing with you when you are showing off vocally. You can sometimes retard the end of a song to do your noodling then, but good heavens, keep it out of the the meat of the song.
2) Oldies but goodies are always the favorites. Don't hesitate to utilize those top CCLI worship songs frequently. There is a reason they are on the top of the list. People LOVE to sing them and worship wholeheartedly when they do.
3) Do not introduce new songs during the opening segment of worship. Keep those songs to the offertory time when the congregation typically isn't singing along. This will give them a chance to hear the song for the first time, so the next time it is part of worship they will be familiar with the tune.
4) Drop the mid-song instrumental parts. It's performance, pure and simple. What exactly is the congregation supposed to be doing while you're doing a slamming solo? We incorporated a few instrumentals during worship, but it was rare and brief.
5) Pray before every practice and every worship. It's for the Father after all, so why not start with Him.
6) Be authentic. I will never forget attending a worship leading conference where the leader of the workshop encouraged vocalists to raise their hands whether they were feeling the Spirit or not. His exact words were "Fake it - the congregation is following your lead." I was appalled. Let the Holy Spirit lead your worship. Fake it? Are you kidding me? Ridiculous.
7) You don't have to memorize everything. I had another workshop leader say every instrumentalist and vocalist should have words and music memorized. Baloney. That might work for your megachurches, but volunteers in praise bands do not all necessarily have the time or talent for that. So you have music stands and monitors on stage and lyrics projected on the walls. This isn't a show. It's worship.
8) Lay low on the special effects, keep the volume at an appropriate level (you should not have to pass out earplugs at the door), and steer clear of rock band show tactics. Again, this is not a concert. It's worship.
9) Lower the lights in the congregation if you can during your open set. People feel less intimidated worshiping (dancing, hands lifted, singing) when they think no one else can see them. However, congregation - I saw you ... and loved it. :)
10) You do not have to wear anything particular when you are leading worship. Some folks think the standard contemporary service outfit is a t-shirt and jeans (girls add a scarf). I made sure to wear whatever I wanted and encouraged our band to do the same. I like sparkles (Heaven is sparkly, so I was too). Sometimes I wore a dress, sometimes capris, sometimes T-shirts, sometimes dress clothes. I wanted anyone who came to our service to feel comfortable - dressy or casual - so I dressed as such. On Pentecost I might tell everyone to wear some red or be in red, white and blue for a patriotic service. One of our guitarists wore a mink on stage once and a captain's hat another time. It was him, so I was cool with it. Just as I am without one plea...
11) Change the key of a song. I know some worship leaders are hesitant to do so, but honestly, I found it was much easier for our congregation to sing some songs when the key came down a bit. And it certainly helped me sing them.
12) Don't be afraid to mix songs. We would put choruses of classic hymns in the middle or at the end of some contemporary songs where they worked and it was beautiful. Just make sure the key and tempo are the same.
13) Bacon is awesome for your voice. I know that sounds crazy, but greasy foods, I found, lubricated the vocal chords and helped a bunch, especially at 8 a.m. on Sunday morning. Milk coats the chords and you spend a good bit of time clearing your throat in the morning if you've had some.
14) Take time to really meditate on what the sermon is about and what the Scriptures are for that week when selecting music. The Holy Spirit picked the music for almost every single Sunday for worship. I say almost because I picked my favorites for my last Sunday and let some of our band folks when they were leaving do the same. It is amazing how the Lord had the perfect songs sitting there waiting to be discovered for worship. It was a miraculous process to be a part of.
15) Listen to Christian music frequently and - cough - religiously. :) That's the best way to get to know new worship songs and hear what the public is loving to sing. Check out Itunes new releases, listen to your local Christian station, check out www.praisecharts.com and www.ccmsongsbytopic.com. And never let anyone tell you Contemporary Christian is less Biblical, theological or worshipful than hymns. Let's face it, many hymns were once bar tunes - secular songs with new lyrics. Contemporary Christian music is powerful, beautiful and worshipful.
16) Make sure your band members have a servant heart. Notice I didn't say a heart for God. While that is ideal, if your band members don't know God, they will get a good dose of Him at practice and worship, so let God handle that. But be sure they have servant hearts. Ask them to get you a glass of water or help you move something on stage. If they leap up to help, servant's heart. If not, they may be a little more self-focused and that helps no one.
17) Don't be afraid to say no. Lots of people think they can sing, but not everyone can carry a tune, stay in key, sing in synch with others, or are reliable, or are flexible, or are willing to do background vocals. If it doesn't work, say so. Yes, folks may walk away with a bruised ego, but this isn't about that, is it?
18) Keep copious notes. If a particular sound, funk or beat works, write it down. If that extra verse was one too many, scratch it out. If one person's voice works amazingly for a specific song, jot it down. If you've found acapella parts or key changes or tempos or harmonies or a change in the road map of the song works - write it down and remember it for next time.
19) Use a metronome. Yes, sometimes the songs will get loud and your drummer can't hear or feel the metronome vibrate, but it consistently helps keep everyone from speeding up or dragging.
20) Let go and let God. If you saw where our praise band started on Tuesday evenings for practice and where we ended up on Sunday worship, you would be amazed. The Holy Spirit showed up and showed off every single week. And it was a joy to observe the transition process.
There you go - the unqualified worship leader's guide to worship leading. You know, I will probably never lead worship again. And that's okay. This was my season to do so. The time and circumstances were just right for me. By God's grace, I never got to a place where I was so comfortable on stage that I forgot Who was in charge. So I am grateful for those knocking knees, shaking hands, pasty tongue and pounding heartbeat. Cause I knew I could never do it myself. And even more thankful for a sweet husband - and friends if he was out of town - who would hold my hand till I calmed down after the lead songs in worship so I could absorb the sermon.
Praise to you, O Father God, for allowing me to have that most excellent adventure. My heart overflows with love for you, your music, your children, your Son, your Guiding Spirit and those precious moments in time where you smiled on us and let us reach beyond what we thought we were capable of. You are an Awesome God. To you be all glory forever and ever. In Jesus name, Amen.
I was blessed beyond measure in this position because I was surrounded by the most talented musicians in town. Seriously. One played with the Bee Gees and KC & The Sunshine Band, could play anything by heart on keys - and I mean anything - and had superior producing skills. Two were in a band called the Sweet Young'uns for nearly 50 years and could play the sweetest licks around. Another was a songwriter and talented on several instruments. We had two amazing drummers, gobs of talented singers with unique voices and a bass player from Hawaii that made a coconut bra look pretty frightening. Later with the addition of yet another amazing drummer who had the best song ideas ever and more guitarists that added character to our songs, this praise band was truly hard to beat. Between all these folks, Sunday after Sunday, the Holy Spirit brought our congregation to the most beautiful place of worship. And I learned so much.
And I think what I learned is something all worship leaders (or those wanting to be) can learn from. So here it goes ...
1) Stop noodling and vibrato when you are singing worship songs. The congregation has trouble singing with you when you are showing off vocally. You can sometimes retard the end of a song to do your noodling then, but good heavens, keep it out of the the meat of the song.
2) Oldies but goodies are always the favorites. Don't hesitate to utilize those top CCLI worship songs frequently. There is a reason they are on the top of the list. People LOVE to sing them and worship wholeheartedly when they do.
3) Do not introduce new songs during the opening segment of worship. Keep those songs to the offertory time when the congregation typically isn't singing along. This will give them a chance to hear the song for the first time, so the next time it is part of worship they will be familiar with the tune.
4) Drop the mid-song instrumental parts. It's performance, pure and simple. What exactly is the congregation supposed to be doing while you're doing a slamming solo? We incorporated a few instrumentals during worship, but it was rare and brief.
5) Pray before every practice and every worship. It's for the Father after all, so why not start with Him.
6) Be authentic. I will never forget attending a worship leading conference where the leader of the workshop encouraged vocalists to raise their hands whether they were feeling the Spirit or not. His exact words were "Fake it - the congregation is following your lead." I was appalled. Let the Holy Spirit lead your worship. Fake it? Are you kidding me? Ridiculous.
7) You don't have to memorize everything. I had another workshop leader say every instrumentalist and vocalist should have words and music memorized. Baloney. That might work for your megachurches, but volunteers in praise bands do not all necessarily have the time or talent for that. So you have music stands and monitors on stage and lyrics projected on the walls. This isn't a show. It's worship.
8) Lay low on the special effects, keep the volume at an appropriate level (you should not have to pass out earplugs at the door), and steer clear of rock band show tactics. Again, this is not a concert. It's worship.
9) Lower the lights in the congregation if you can during your open set. People feel less intimidated worshiping (dancing, hands lifted, singing) when they think no one else can see them. However, congregation - I saw you ... and loved it. :)
10) You do not have to wear anything particular when you are leading worship. Some folks think the standard contemporary service outfit is a t-shirt and jeans (girls add a scarf). I made sure to wear whatever I wanted and encouraged our band to do the same. I like sparkles (Heaven is sparkly, so I was too). Sometimes I wore a dress, sometimes capris, sometimes T-shirts, sometimes dress clothes. I wanted anyone who came to our service to feel comfortable - dressy or casual - so I dressed as such. On Pentecost I might tell everyone to wear some red or be in red, white and blue for a patriotic service. One of our guitarists wore a mink on stage once and a captain's hat another time. It was him, so I was cool with it. Just as I am without one plea...
11) Change the key of a song. I know some worship leaders are hesitant to do so, but honestly, I found it was much easier for our congregation to sing some songs when the key came down a bit. And it certainly helped me sing them.
12) Don't be afraid to mix songs. We would put choruses of classic hymns in the middle or at the end of some contemporary songs where they worked and it was beautiful. Just make sure the key and tempo are the same.
13) Bacon is awesome for your voice. I know that sounds crazy, but greasy foods, I found, lubricated the vocal chords and helped a bunch, especially at 8 a.m. on Sunday morning. Milk coats the chords and you spend a good bit of time clearing your throat in the morning if you've had some.
14) Take time to really meditate on what the sermon is about and what the Scriptures are for that week when selecting music. The Holy Spirit picked the music for almost every single Sunday for worship. I say almost because I picked my favorites for my last Sunday and let some of our band folks when they were leaving do the same. It is amazing how the Lord had the perfect songs sitting there waiting to be discovered for worship. It was a miraculous process to be a part of.
15) Listen to Christian music frequently and - cough - religiously. :) That's the best way to get to know new worship songs and hear what the public is loving to sing. Check out Itunes new releases, listen to your local Christian station, check out www.praisecharts.com and www.ccmsongsbytopic.com. And never let anyone tell you Contemporary Christian is less Biblical, theological or worshipful than hymns. Let's face it, many hymns were once bar tunes - secular songs with new lyrics. Contemporary Christian music is powerful, beautiful and worshipful.
16) Make sure your band members have a servant heart. Notice I didn't say a heart for God. While that is ideal, if your band members don't know God, they will get a good dose of Him at practice and worship, so let God handle that. But be sure they have servant hearts. Ask them to get you a glass of water or help you move something on stage. If they leap up to help, servant's heart. If not, they may be a little more self-focused and that helps no one.
17) Don't be afraid to say no. Lots of people think they can sing, but not everyone can carry a tune, stay in key, sing in synch with others, or are reliable, or are flexible, or are willing to do background vocals. If it doesn't work, say so. Yes, folks may walk away with a bruised ego, but this isn't about that, is it?
18) Keep copious notes. If a particular sound, funk or beat works, write it down. If that extra verse was one too many, scratch it out. If one person's voice works amazingly for a specific song, jot it down. If you've found acapella parts or key changes or tempos or harmonies or a change in the road map of the song works - write it down and remember it for next time.
19) Use a metronome. Yes, sometimes the songs will get loud and your drummer can't hear or feel the metronome vibrate, but it consistently helps keep everyone from speeding up or dragging.
20) Let go and let God. If you saw where our praise band started on Tuesday evenings for practice and where we ended up on Sunday worship, you would be amazed. The Holy Spirit showed up and showed off every single week. And it was a joy to observe the transition process.
There you go - the unqualified worship leader's guide to worship leading. You know, I will probably never lead worship again. And that's okay. This was my season to do so. The time and circumstances were just right for me. By God's grace, I never got to a place where I was so comfortable on stage that I forgot Who was in charge. So I am grateful for those knocking knees, shaking hands, pasty tongue and pounding heartbeat. Cause I knew I could never do it myself. And even more thankful for a sweet husband - and friends if he was out of town - who would hold my hand till I calmed down after the lead songs in worship so I could absorb the sermon.
Praise to you, O Father God, for allowing me to have that most excellent adventure. My heart overflows with love for you, your music, your children, your Son, your Guiding Spirit and those precious moments in time where you smiled on us and let us reach beyond what we thought we were capable of. You are an Awesome God. To you be all glory forever and ever. In Jesus name, Amen.
Friday, June 6, 2014
Prep Time
You should see me get ready to walk each day. It's pretty comical. I don't just throw on a pair of shoes and walk my daily 2 miles. First I put on my walking shorts (stretchy and comfy), a snug jog bra, an old T-shirt I've cut the sleeves and collar off (instant tank top) and ankle socks. But no, I'm not done there. Then I slide my Ipod under my shirt with the ear buds coming out of the top of the collarless tank and clip it to my shorts. I also clip a retracting key chain with my house key dangling from it to the waist band of my shorts. I clip my cellphone case on. I put my hair in a ponytail and top everything off with my sparkly visor (whichever matches that day's outfit - I'm not kidding). Then I check the duct tape on the inside back of my walking shoes. The inside lining wore off (I always slip on the shoes verses untying and tying them), but the soles are still good, so the duct tape is allowing me to get more turf time with this pair. But the duct tape curls periodically, so I need to change it every few days.
I have found doing all this makes my daily walk much more enjoyable. I've got my music. My kids or husband can get a hold of me if they need to or I can have a 30 minute visit with a friend via cellphone. My face and eyes are protected from the sun via the visor. If I forget the key, I'm locked out. If I forget the visor, I'm squinting the whole time. If I don't check the duct tape, I can end up with a blister. Yes, it's quite a process to get out the door, but since I do this every day, it takes just minutes to get everything together. Then I'm good to go. Prepared, safe, secure, comfy ... I'm better for the walk. The prep time is worth it.
Recently I noticed that I had gotten too busy in the morning for my devotion time. Strike that. Make it "too lazy." I say too lazy, because honestly, I had the time, I was just not getting to it. I decided to turn things around a couple weeks ago. I asked the Lord to wake me as the sun rises so the first thing I do each day is spend time with him.
Now, you need to know, I am NOT a morning person. I'm the gal who kicks in about 3 p.m. I get more things accomplished, faster and more efficiently in the afternoon to evening hours. So asking God to wake me early was not my first choice. But I noticed that the sunlight wakes me up every morning anyways to my chagrin. And it's a beautiful time of day, so peaceful and sweet, watching the sun creep up over the horizon, that it feels like Jesus is starting the day just for me.
So I got myself a new Bible study and have been giving my Father about 30 minutes to an hour each morning in devotion, study and prayer. And it's been delightful. I have learned so much, had miraculous answers to prayer, gone through my prayer lists over and over again, been nudged by the Spirit to meet the needs of others, corrected some behaviors (okay, still working on those) and just basked in the glory and worship of the Son. Call it my day prep time.
I'm getting about four times more accomplished, I'm growing Spiritually and getting much better rest each night. What a blessing this morning devotion time has turned out to be for this very non-morning person. And honestly, like getting ready for my walk, it's not been difficult at all to get into the routine. The Lord has been faithful to wake me up early every day and I have stayed faithful to spend time with Him. It guards my heart, this morning time with Him. I need it and love it.
I have done devotion times at all times of the day, but I can say with all honesty, when I do it in the morning, the day goes better ... every time. My focus is where it needs to be. I love that prep time. I'm better for the day.
Prepared, safe, secure ... and comfy in Jesus.
I have found doing all this makes my daily walk much more enjoyable. I've got my music. My kids or husband can get a hold of me if they need to or I can have a 30 minute visit with a friend via cellphone. My face and eyes are protected from the sun via the visor. If I forget the key, I'm locked out. If I forget the visor, I'm squinting the whole time. If I don't check the duct tape, I can end up with a blister. Yes, it's quite a process to get out the door, but since I do this every day, it takes just minutes to get everything together. Then I'm good to go. Prepared, safe, secure, comfy ... I'm better for the walk. The prep time is worth it.
Recently I noticed that I had gotten too busy in the morning for my devotion time. Strike that. Make it "too lazy." I say too lazy, because honestly, I had the time, I was just not getting to it. I decided to turn things around a couple weeks ago. I asked the Lord to wake me as the sun rises so the first thing I do each day is spend time with him.
Now, you need to know, I am NOT a morning person. I'm the gal who kicks in about 3 p.m. I get more things accomplished, faster and more efficiently in the afternoon to evening hours. So asking God to wake me early was not my first choice. But I noticed that the sunlight wakes me up every morning anyways to my chagrin. And it's a beautiful time of day, so peaceful and sweet, watching the sun creep up over the horizon, that it feels like Jesus is starting the day just for me.
So I got myself a new Bible study and have been giving my Father about 30 minutes to an hour each morning in devotion, study and prayer. And it's been delightful. I have learned so much, had miraculous answers to prayer, gone through my prayer lists over and over again, been nudged by the Spirit to meet the needs of others, corrected some behaviors (okay, still working on those) and just basked in the glory and worship of the Son. Call it my day prep time.
I'm getting about four times more accomplished, I'm growing Spiritually and getting much better rest each night. What a blessing this morning devotion time has turned out to be for this very non-morning person. And honestly, like getting ready for my walk, it's not been difficult at all to get into the routine. The Lord has been faithful to wake me up early every day and I have stayed faithful to spend time with Him. It guards my heart, this morning time with Him. I need it and love it.
I have done devotion times at all times of the day, but I can say with all honesty, when I do it in the morning, the day goes better ... every time. My focus is where it needs to be. I love that prep time. I'm better for the day.
Prepared, safe, secure ... and comfy in Jesus.
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Scintillating
I have a pair of silver sparkly shoes that I got at our church youth yard sale a year ago for 25 cents. (I know, great bargain, right?) They are comfortable and super sparkly ... unless it's cloudy outside. Then, not so much. They don't sparkle at all actually. They need some kind of light to reflect to be completely appreciated.
Sunlight or artificial, they need it to scintillate (my new word for the day - basically means to sparkle). And if you're wearing something with sparkle potential, you want maximum scintillation.
I think Christians are a lot like my glittery shoes. We need to be in the Light to truly shine. Every moment of every day, we need to find the Light, stay in the Light and reflect the Light so others see it. If we are, perhaps people will be drawn to Christ the way I'm drawn to sparkly things.
I used to wish that when I walked, I would leave sparkle behind me (you know like Tinkerbell when she flies). And with these sparkly shoes, that sometimes happens, as the little glitter bits fall off now and then. Again, I think that, too, is something we as Christians should aim for: leaving that sparkle of Christ in our wake so people will know we've been there in His name. You know - change the world for Jesus so they see it's all because of Him.
It's a sunny day today. I've got the sparkle shoes on. Praying I radiate the Son as much as they reflect the sun.
Friday, March 14, 2014
Commanded to Love
If you call yourself a Christian and are not loving your enemies, you're a joke. Just let me state that flat out. It was one of Christ's commands in the Sermon on the Mount (Matt 5:43). He didn't say, "tolerate your enemies," "ignore those who are displeasing to you," or "give someone you disagree with the silent treatment." No, He said plain and simple, love them. LOVE THEM.
I am sure you are detecting a note of frustration in my voice. I am so very, very tired of people calling themselves Christians and finding all manner of ways to dismiss those they just don't like. I have been treated kinder, frankly, by non-Christians than people who call themselves Christians and smile to my face, while their behavior is blatantly opposite to what Christ commands.
Our Father calls us to be honest, compassionate peacemakers and He even gives us a formula for its success. First, Christ tells us in Matt 5:23-24 that we are required to reconcile with our brother or sister before we bring our gifts to the altar. Second, He tells us to forgive this person so our Father will forgive our sins. And thirdly, if we catch someone in a sin, we're to point out the person's fault and if they listen, all is well, but if they don't, take one or two witnesses along so the matter can be rectified. There's even a final option about getting the church evolved in Matt. 18:15-17. Therefore, based on all three of those Scriptural guidelines, we Christians should be resolving conflicts, forgiving one another and loving one another. But if even the forgiveness is coming slowly, we are above all, to love.
There. I know I feel much better getting all that out. And honestly, I don't follow all the above perfectly all the time. But I strive to, and praise Jesus, have an accountability group that calls me on the moments I am not doing as such. But if I don't see my Christian brothers and sisters working to reconcile, then I just plain and simple don't believe they are following the commands of Christ. They may be building walls around themselves or removing themselves from different things thinking they are protecting themselves from further harm. But that is folly. It's simply Satan isolating that person from the loving, reconciliation that Christ encourages. I know because I was there, doing that isolation bit, when all it did was make me more bitter, lonely and heartbroken.
If you love Jesus and owe your life to Him, He had a command that He considered second only to loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, strength (Deut 6:5), and that was to love our neighbor as ourselves (Lev. 19:18) - and that doesn't mean just Christian ones. When we stand before His throne we will be accountable to Him.
So stop faking it. Stop metaphorically stabbing people in the back when they aren't around. Stop eliminating souls from your life thinking that is how you will guard your heart. Stop rolling your eyes at people you disagree with. Stop pitying yourself. Stop being so arrogant that you believe you alone have been wounded or are sin free. Stop looking for reasons to dislike someone God created in His image and was willing to die for. In the name of Christ Jesus, stop it.
And start being who Christ commanded ... Him.
I am sure you are detecting a note of frustration in my voice. I am so very, very tired of people calling themselves Christians and finding all manner of ways to dismiss those they just don't like. I have been treated kinder, frankly, by non-Christians than people who call themselves Christians and smile to my face, while their behavior is blatantly opposite to what Christ commands.
Our Father calls us to be honest, compassionate peacemakers and He even gives us a formula for its success. First, Christ tells us in Matt 5:23-24 that we are required to reconcile with our brother or sister before we bring our gifts to the altar. Second, He tells us to forgive this person so our Father will forgive our sins. And thirdly, if we catch someone in a sin, we're to point out the person's fault and if they listen, all is well, but if they don't, take one or two witnesses along so the matter can be rectified. There's even a final option about getting the church evolved in Matt. 18:15-17. Therefore, based on all three of those Scriptural guidelines, we Christians should be resolving conflicts, forgiving one another and loving one another. But if even the forgiveness is coming slowly, we are above all, to love.
There. I know I feel much better getting all that out. And honestly, I don't follow all the above perfectly all the time. But I strive to, and praise Jesus, have an accountability group that calls me on the moments I am not doing as such. But if I don't see my Christian brothers and sisters working to reconcile, then I just plain and simple don't believe they are following the commands of Christ. They may be building walls around themselves or removing themselves from different things thinking they are protecting themselves from further harm. But that is folly. It's simply Satan isolating that person from the loving, reconciliation that Christ encourages. I know because I was there, doing that isolation bit, when all it did was make me more bitter, lonely and heartbroken.
If you love Jesus and owe your life to Him, He had a command that He considered second only to loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, strength (Deut 6:5), and that was to love our neighbor as ourselves (Lev. 19:18) - and that doesn't mean just Christian ones. When we stand before His throne we will be accountable to Him.
So stop faking it. Stop metaphorically stabbing people in the back when they aren't around. Stop eliminating souls from your life thinking that is how you will guard your heart. Stop rolling your eyes at people you disagree with. Stop pitying yourself. Stop being so arrogant that you believe you alone have been wounded or are sin free. Stop looking for reasons to dislike someone God created in His image and was willing to die for. In the name of Christ Jesus, stop it.
And start being who Christ commanded ... Him.
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Tuesday, March 4, 2014
The Daniel Plan
If I like something, I am one to be sure to tell everyone about it. For example, I love chocolate. I love sparkly things. I love my husband. I love my children. I love my Lord and Savior. Anyone who knows me, knows how I feel about all of this. So when I come across something that has changed my life for the better and really works, I'm going to make sure you know about it.
Just recently our church started The Daniel Plan. It's a program created by Rick Warren author of "The Purpose Driven Life" and pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, CA. As Adult Education Coordinator in our church, I was sent some material about it and it intrigued me. First of all it was Biblical, and secondly because it was a life-change wellness book and not a diet plan.
The Daniel Plan has five initiatives: faith, food, fitness, focus and friends. It's a book on complete wholeness and wellness, showing us how our bodies can be a temple for the Lord (1 Cor. 6:19). The book is excellent and filled with Scripture, facts, statistics, stories of success, goals and suggestions. But it's the advice it gave that has been an inspiration.
Much of the health part you've heard before: eat more fruits and vegetables, the right portions of the food groups necessary to maintain health, eat the right fats, limit sugars, exercise at least four times a week, don't skip meals, etc. But it was other information I hadn't heard that opened my eyes. For example, how foods with labels including more than five ingredients, probably aren't foods (especially if you can't pronounce the ingredients). How sitting has become the new smoking in its detrimental effects on our bodies. How your brain immediately craves carbohydrates in food emergencies, so you should have a food emergency kit on hand with healthy choices. How the brain releases certain chemicals throughout the body based on the negative or positives thoughts you have. And the dangers of processed foods we eat. My husband commented last night: "I tell you what, the Lord has truly made the human body resilient after all we put it through."
As a result of The Daniel Plan, we are grocery shopping in a whole new way, reading every label to make sure we're eating actual food, selecting more fruits and vegetables and avoiding the processed food aisles in the center of the store. And we've been shocked by the changes in a few weeks, and we're not talking weight-wise. We sleep better, longer and deeper. We have tons more energy during the day. Brad's blood sugars from a diabetic standpoint are more controllable. We are excited to see if our new habits stick and more importantly to see if it translates into better health for the two of us. When 15,000 people joined Rick Warren in this first Daniel Plan, they lost a combination of 260,000 pounds. That's impressive and encouraging. And the fact that it's all revolving around our love for the Lord is the coolest part.
I've been given one "jar of clay" (1 Cor. 4:7), and to be the best, strongest, most resilient soldier for the Lord, it's about time I took better care of it. As the book says, "You wouldn't give a hamburger and french fries to your dog. So why would you eat it?" When I look around me and see how poorly we've done as a people taking care of ourselves, and how we truly have only ourselves to blame (self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit after all), it's startling ... but not hopeless. We may be coming to this realization late, but at least we're here. As chapter one in the book ends: "Welcome to the journey."
Just recently our church started The Daniel Plan. It's a program created by Rick Warren author of "The Purpose Driven Life" and pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, CA. As Adult Education Coordinator in our church, I was sent some material about it and it intrigued me. First of all it was Biblical, and secondly because it was a life-change wellness book and not a diet plan.
The Daniel Plan has five initiatives: faith, food, fitness, focus and friends. It's a book on complete wholeness and wellness, showing us how our bodies can be a temple for the Lord (1 Cor. 6:19). The book is excellent and filled with Scripture, facts, statistics, stories of success, goals and suggestions. But it's the advice it gave that has been an inspiration.
Much of the health part you've heard before: eat more fruits and vegetables, the right portions of the food groups necessary to maintain health, eat the right fats, limit sugars, exercise at least four times a week, don't skip meals, etc. But it was other information I hadn't heard that opened my eyes. For example, how foods with labels including more than five ingredients, probably aren't foods (especially if you can't pronounce the ingredients). How sitting has become the new smoking in its detrimental effects on our bodies. How your brain immediately craves carbohydrates in food emergencies, so you should have a food emergency kit on hand with healthy choices. How the brain releases certain chemicals throughout the body based on the negative or positives thoughts you have. And the dangers of processed foods we eat. My husband commented last night: "I tell you what, the Lord has truly made the human body resilient after all we put it through."
As a result of The Daniel Plan, we are grocery shopping in a whole new way, reading every label to make sure we're eating actual food, selecting more fruits and vegetables and avoiding the processed food aisles in the center of the store. And we've been shocked by the changes in a few weeks, and we're not talking weight-wise. We sleep better, longer and deeper. We have tons more energy during the day. Brad's blood sugars from a diabetic standpoint are more controllable. We are excited to see if our new habits stick and more importantly to see if it translates into better health for the two of us. When 15,000 people joined Rick Warren in this first Daniel Plan, they lost a combination of 260,000 pounds. That's impressive and encouraging. And the fact that it's all revolving around our love for the Lord is the coolest part.
I've been given one "jar of clay" (1 Cor. 4:7), and to be the best, strongest, most resilient soldier for the Lord, it's about time I took better care of it. As the book says, "You wouldn't give a hamburger and french fries to your dog. So why would you eat it?" When I look around me and see how poorly we've done as a people taking care of ourselves, and how we truly have only ourselves to blame (self-control is one of the fruits of the Spirit after all), it's startling ... but not hopeless. We may be coming to this realization late, but at least we're here. As chapter one in the book ends: "Welcome to the journey."
Friday, February 28, 2014
47 Faith Focuses
Next Tuesday is Mardi Gras - the French words for Fat Tuesday, the day you're to feast before the fasting of Lent. Lent is the 40 days plus Sundays leading up to Easter. Some people throughout history have sacrificed something during these days - candy, smoking, social media, television, video games - to remember Christ's sacrifice. But I'm going to suggest a different method of celebrating.
If sacrifice is your preferred method of focusing of the Lord in the days leading up to Easter, go for it. Fast from whatever you feel is pulling you away from Him. But you can also proactively approach these days in efforts to improve yourself spiritually. I've listed 47 things that you can do, one each day, leading up to Easter Sunday. You don't necessarily have to do them in order (although the last seven do coincide with some events from the most important week in history). Perhaps these will revive your soul, encourage your spirit and grow the Kingdom in some God-glorifying way. Have fun! Praise His Name!
If sacrifice is your preferred method of focusing of the Lord in the days leading up to Easter, go for it. Fast from whatever you feel is pulling you away from Him. But you can also proactively approach these days in efforts to improve yourself spiritually. I've listed 47 things that you can do, one each day, leading up to Easter Sunday. You don't necessarily have to do them in order (although the last seven do coincide with some events from the most important week in history). Perhaps these will revive your soul, encourage your spirit and grow the Kingdom in some God-glorifying way. Have fun! Praise His Name!
47 Faith Focuses during Lent (40 Day of Lent + 7 Sundays)
1) Read your Bible every day. Even if for a short while. Document over these next 47 days what the Lord teaches you through His Word.
2) Pray all throughout the day, as you wake up, mealtime,
before bed, devotion time – even at restaurants if you’re out to supper. And
ask the server how you can pray for them.
3) Do an anonymous random act of kindness in Christ’s name.
4) Write a thank you to someone for their service to Jesus.
5) Honor your parents in some way. Write them a love letter, do something in remembrance of them or in honor of them.
6) Give to a charity in Christ’s name.
7) Care for God’s Creation in some way – compost, plant a
tree, start a garden, clean the streets.
8) Find reasons to edify others throughout the day.
9) Spend some time in study – read a Christian biography,
take a new Bible study.
10) Podcast sermons to hear what others called by God are sharing.
11) Switch your radio to Christian music and
see what change it makes in your life.
12) Journal your prayers. Write down when God give a specific answer to prayer.
13) Find a devotional that works for you: couples, women's,
men's, family, beach, etc.
14) Ask the Lord to convict your heart in forgiveness. Ask
for forgiveness from those around you that you have wronged. Forgive those who’ve
wronged you.
15) Find a cause you are passionate about that involves helping
the oppressed.
16) Clean out your closets and donate to a local Good Will,
Salvation Army or thrift store.
17) When you grocery shop, pick up a few extra items for the
food pantry.
18) Visit someone who is lonely, in the hospital or a
nursing home.
19) Boldly speak to someone about Jesus Christ that you know could
really use Him in their life.
20) Watch a Bible DVD or
movie and have a discussion together about its accuracy, theme or message.
21) Sing praise songs to the Lord all day long.All. Day. Long.
22) Memorize Bible verses, or entire chapters of Scripture,
like Psalm 23, the Sermon on the Mount, Romans 8, 1 Cor. 13, etc.
23) Avoid watching garbage on TV. Yes, that may mean turning it off completely. Remember, garbage in, garbage out.
24) Write out your faith story for future generations to
read.
25) Ask the pastor: “What need does our church have that I
can fill?”
26) Ponder the names of God and praise Him for the name that
means the most to you today.
27) Take a good look in the mirror: What do you need to do
to improve your body as a temple for the Lord?
28) Count your blessings. Write down everything you have to
be thankful for.
29) Ponder God’s majesty by spending sometime tonight under
the stars. Look for constellations in the sky, watch for shooting stars, check
out the phase of the moon.
30) If your Bible is worn and filled with notes and
highlights, considering getting a new one or different version and reading it
with fresh eyes. If it’s not worn – open it up. The best kind of Bible is a
well-read one.
31) Whatever task you face today, do it as if serving the
Lord Himself, with joy, respect, grace, love and enthusiasm.
32) What has been the high of your day? Your low? What did
God teach you through both of those things?
33) Take a spiritual gifts test. See what your strengths are
and utilize them for God’s service.
34) Invite someone over for supper and learn more about them
as brothers and sisters in Christ.
35) Be creative today! Make something, paint something, fix
something, all for God’s glory and in His Name.
36) Go to the highest point in your town and look over the
vastness of God’s creation. What new things do you see?
37) Look up the author and back story of one of the old
hymns and sing it out, sing it out, sing it out!
38) Ask the Lord to nudge you about a particular person that
may need to hear from you today and then act on it.
39) Go the whole day being “third.” Putting God first, then
others, then yourself. Humbly let others go before you.
40) Read the story of the Exodus and participate in a
Passover Meal. See how Christ took the place of the Passover lamb.
41) Check out Biblical maps to see where the patriarchs
lived, where the 12 Tribes of Israel settled, how the Kingdom divided after
Solomon, where the Israelites went during the Diaspora, what the Holy Lands
looked like in Jesus time and what they look like today.
42) Do a spiritual inventory. Are you worshiping, reading the
Word, studying, serving others. Put it away to be opened a year from now and
see how you’ve grown spiritually.
43) When out to lunch – pay for someone else’s meal without
them knowing. Tell the server to tell them it was done in Jesus’ name, but not that you did it.
44) Take communion today in remembrance of Him.
45) Read the story of Christ’s arrest, trial and crucifixion
in all four gospels to get all their perspectives on this most important week
in history.
46) Put together an Easter treat for a friend – flowers, balloons,
candy and a Bible verse or devotion. Tell them how much Jesus loves them.
47) Dance before the Lord because Jesus Christ is risen
today! This is a day of completely glorifying the Lord! Hallelujah, Amen.
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